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Loving
Your Inner Child The
Ego of
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The
Ego protects the body, It keeps you safe from harm. Harm as in emotional
and physical harm
and specially pain. The child learns to fight, to protect itself and learns to use fear. The Ego learns the art of survival. Ego is valuable, but it also blocks real feelings. Ultimately the Dark Inner Ego Child fear rejection. |
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The Inner Child and the Ego sees Yourself, the 'Self' as their own Parent. Your own Protector, Guardian and your own loving Inner parent. |
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Our own rejection has a powerful affect. It decimates you to your core. Perhaps, subconsciously major life choices were made, such as the choice of career or spouse, just to please your parents? The bright Inner Child lives for it's own acceptance and its Dark Ego side, will do anything to be loved and accepted by You, Your Self.
The Inner Child and the Dark Ego Child are both part of the Self, the whole person that is you, the same entity. The Inner Child, is really You. The Child is trusting, loving, playful and free just as our spirit is. The shining, bright side of you. Another side to the Inner Childis the Ego.
Building Self esteem and Loving ourself. Negative self-talk is very damaging to the Child. When saying "I am stupid" or self derogratory things, our Inner Child and Ego hears it. It hears that you are foolish and worthless. It is destructive to the Inner Child. Did you still feel accepted and lovable?
What does the Inner Child do when negative self-talk is used? It seeks to avoid, block or eliminate whatever that is causing the pain. Hurting the Inner Child the wall of defense is made. To defend in the face of conflict. Others are right and you are wrong, making it necessary to defend our position. Each reaction to someone's accusations the Child within is abondoned. Let others opinions be, they can feel whatever they want, we keep our Child safe and secure. If we are truly living with our truth, there is no need to defend that truth to anyone. |
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