What
is Separation?
What does it function with?
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What
is Separation?
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Secrecy
an expression of separation. Secrecy
is withholding information from your partner or from yourself. Secrecy
does not just operate on the level of your interactions with others, secrecy
keep you separated from the greater portion of yourself, as well. It was
considered to be very important to maintain relationships in Third Dimension
reality.
Fear-based
is the expression is fear-based relationships. If another
is committed to you, then you take yourself out of the flow of having
to deal with relationships. You are separate from the rest of the world.
Separate and safe. This is based on fear. Conditional
Love has been very vital to
maintaining Third Dimension reality relationships. Conditional love means
that you will love someone only if they fulfill your needs or conditions
that you set out. If they do not fill this, you will withdraw your love.
There has been a noncomprehension in Third Dimension reality of the meaning
of unconditional love. The only way one views everything else is through
that framework of separation. Love in Third Dimension reality is love
based on conditions. Expectation. We go into a relationship with someone with expectations in our mind. More often we are not even aware of this, and if aware of these expectations, you coerce the other person to fulfill those expectations. Manipulation.
This can be very covert as well as overt. In some Third Dimension relationships
there can be very deep-seated manipulation. Each person will get their
needs fulfilled or will be protected from their own fears. The
Need to Control. This
is a mistrust in reality, that everything is happening the way it needs
to be. How often have we said "It is Destined" or "It is
for the greater good". The need to control is in fact nonacceptance
to change. Therefore you must instead shape the relationship, force it,
mold it, because there is no trust. |
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