relationships
Satisfying
inner need has to go deeper than what society or
your ego tells you will suffice. To be in separation is by definition
to be insecure. Inner need must be faced before you can feel secure.
To be aware of inner need is healthy, to deny unhealthy. Everyone brings needs to a relationship, and admitting this makes it more honest. Nevertheless, inner need can become so great that it distorts your view of yourself. With recurring thoughts like these relationships are unbalanced. One partner feels much more insecurity, much more inner need.
"I'm
not smart enough, not beautiful enough, not lovable enough.
I never do the right thing, Something's wrong with me".
Whatever
triggers these beliefs they are totally false.In the light of spirit you
are wholeness
and therefore lack for nothing. You are love and therefore must be lovable
and
desirable. You are unique and cannot be compared with anyone else.
In the eyes of spirit you are always enough.
Fulfillment
lies within by its very nature.
"I' am" is the primal feeling of existence,
and within "I am" there is total peace and security.
